I'm in need in some serious make up advice for the make up challenged...?

I would say get a good eyeliner for smudging like stilla kajal eyeliner ( I have this in onyx) I know what it is like to try to smudge it but then it just comes off, this eyeliner makes it so much easier because it is so creamy and tends to not pull the skin around the eye area. hope that helps! :)